
uestion:
I am ready for a relationship but thereâs a shortage of good prospects. Where can I go to find women?
Answer:
The cynical me is wondering if this is your real question. That part of me is wondering if your question is really: Where can I find that blond (red head, brunette) with the big blue (green, gray) eyes and the even bigger boobs, the tiny waist, and cute feet (dimples, butt) who will care (worship and adore) for me and cook better than my mother?
For the record â' I donât know where she is.
But, letâs say your question was quite serious and you want to know where you can find a quality woman who is worthy of your time. Oddly enough, I asked this question in a survey and the answers included: bookstores, sporting events, a friendâs party, cultural events, coffeehouses, volunteer situations, and church. Even more odd, more than one woman responded with my answer: women can be found everywhere. Quality women are everywhere because women are everywhere. You can even find women playing golf in Georgia (though not at Augusta National â' but I bet they have a woman there serving drinks).
The problem isnât a shortage of good, worthy women; it could be your perception of what is good and worthy. It might stop you from looking at women who are short, or dark haired, or of a different race.
I suggest you begin your search by looking at every woman as date material especially if she isnât âyour typeâ. Smile at them all, say hello to most of them. Youâll discover youâre smiling a great deal because there are a great many women out there. Youâll also discover there are many who are willing to smile and say hello right back at you. That will help you open and expand your view of women and assure you of the quality and quantity of women there are to meet. Add a few more skills and you will be well on the way to getting the relationship you want.