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My worst break up happened last week. It was horrible. I hated it. I called him and said "I want to fix the relationship" and I asked if he did? He said "Actually I was thinking that it would be better if we could be friends."

I started to cry in the background and then I said bye. But I did say "you sure we can be friends" even though I don't want to be friends. I want to be his girlfriend and him be my boyfriend. I still have really really really deep feelings for him. The next day at school I saw him and started to cry. I immediately ran and never looked back. Then the next day I had to go to his house because I am best friends with his sister and we...]]> http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/passion-party.html http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/pain-ass.html Tue, 04 Oct 2005 09:46:50 GMT
OK,let me just say it: My husband wants to try anal sex and I don't. I know he experienced it with at least one of his girlfriends before we were married, but we've been married for two years and it's just something I don't want to do. He seems to think I will find it pleasurable, but I just don't like the thought of. What do I do?

Fay




Dear Fay

The bottom line (forgive the pun) is that it's your body and you have the say so of how it gets treated. If anal sex is something you are sure you don't want to try, then don't do it. On the other hand, if it's something you think you're against with giving it as much as a try, you might want to consider a compromise that involves anal stimulation, but not penetration - at least not with a penis. You can...]]> http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/pain-ass.html http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/dont-want-know.html Tue, 04 Oct 2005 09:22:45 GMT
Mya





Dear Mya

Your guy certainly knows me. The question is loaded. What possible answer could he give to the question other than he's thinking of you and how wonderful you were. If he said, he was wondering about the score or the game, or something going on at the office, or if there was toilet paper in the bathroom, it would have made you upset and opened himself up to...]]> http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/dont-want-know.html http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/my-feet-may-never-touch-the-floor-.html Tue, 04 Oct 2005 09:18:33 GMT
Is it necessary for partners to have the same level of sexual desire? My boyfriend has a much higher sex drive than I do. We love each other and are talking about marriage, but this is an issue that has come up and I don't know if I should marry someone who wants sex more than I'm willing to have it.






Dear Reader

Kudos, to you and your boyfriend for having the discussion before you get married. It often becomes a problem after the vows are said.

No, it isn't necessary for two partners to have the same intensity. What is necessary is that they have an understanding. If your boyfriend wants sex everyday and that's something you just can't handle, then you will have to discuss how often and what kinds of intimacy you can agree on. You might not...]]> http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/my-feet-may-never-touch-the-floor-.html http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/cybersex-more-like-god2.html Tue, 04 Oct 2005 07:45:13 GMT
I am a single thirty-two year old woman and I don't really want to get married - at least not yet. I got started a little later than most of the people I know and it was until my late twenties that I even discovered I like myself enough to go after what I want. I don't have anything against marriage - I just don't want it yet. But friends and family members are starting to ask when will I get married. I need help answering this tiring question.

Mimi







Dear Mimi

I think the answer is in your question: you've gotten to the point where you like keeping company with you and that's enough right now. Butif that doesn't work, tell them you're trying to be more like God - He was single and had a kid.]]> http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/cybersex-more-like-god2.html http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/train-him.html Tue, 04 Oct 2005 07:31:47 GMT





Let me see if I got all this: he’s honest, funny, intelligent, and a really good friend and you want to train him? I would say dump them, but I’m afraid you’d think I was talking about him.

You need to unpack the baggage you’re carrying from the frustrating relationships and lose the old...]]> http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/train-him.html http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/just-got-friend.html Tue, 04 Oct 2005 01:49:48 GMT
How can you tell if a guy just wants to be friends? There is this guy named Clark and we’ve been friends for almost our whole lives. I know I like him a little more than that and thought I would be honest and tell him. He says he isn’t looking for a girlfriend, but he does like our friendship and doesn’t want to lose it. I told him he wouldn’t. ever since then, he has been giving me compliments and we’ve seemed to have grown closer. I even catch him looking at me with a funny look on his face. Some of my friends tell me to stick around him because he’s discovering that he does like me. Other friends are saying I should let the situation be. What do you think?

Cara




Dear Cara

There are many different ways to tell if he just wants to be...]]> http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/just-got-friend.html http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/gotta-meet-friends.html Tue, 04 Oct 2005 01:45:47 GMT
How soon is too soon to meet someone's friends? I've been seeing this girl for the past few months. We have certainly gotten into the dating area and she says she wonders how come I haven't introduced her to my friends yet. I met some of hers over several outings. It never occured to me to do something formal that introduces her to my friends. I would understand it more if she wanted to meet my family, but she hasn't asked about that.

Gregg







Dear Gregg

New one one me - didn't know there was a protocol for meeting the pals. But since you've met hers and she wants to meet yours. Throw a party and invite them over and have her invite some friends of her own. You can all get to know each other in one fell swoop.]]> http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/gotta-meet-friends.html http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/picture.html Mon, 03 Oct 2005 04:38:41 GMT
I've been in a relationship with a really nice guy for the past few years. It is a serious relationship and we have discussed marriage onseveral occasions. The problem is this: I have pictures of boyfriends and he has photos of old girlfriends. These photos represent happy times and place in ourlives. I don't want to ger rid of these things, but he thinks perhaps we should even though he has some that he really does enjoy.

Myrna




Dear Myrna

I think you should compromise and keep some of them. If you don't mind seeing pics of old flames and he doesn't mind, then find a common theme between some of those pictures and hang them up in one location, the rest you can find a nice home in storage somewhere and the two of you can pull them out when you...]]> http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/picture.html http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/cybersex-more-like-god.html Mon, 03 Oct 2005 04:34:31 GMT
I am a single thirty-two year old woman and I don't really want to get married - at least not yet. I got started a little later than most of the people I know and it was until my late twenties that I even discovered I like myself enough to go after what I want. I don't have anything against marriage - I just don't want it yet. But friends and family members are starting to ask when will I get married. I need help answering this tiring question.

Mimi







Dear Mimi

I think the answer is in your question: you've gotten to the point where you like keeping company with you and that's enough right now. Butif that doesn't work, tell them you're trying to be more like God - He was single and had a kid.]]> http://www.a-singles.com/dating-questions/cybersex-more-like-god.html